Boys like to express themselves in front of girls they like and show girls their strengths, hoping to leave a deep impression on girls. But if you have been showing off for a long time and a girl mentions another boy in front of you, what does the girl mean? Did she make you jealous on purpose or was it unintentional?
1. A girl hints at rejecting you
If your intention to pursue a girl is obvious and the girl notices that you like her, but she is not actually interested in you, it is because you have not taken the initiative yet. She confesses that she hasn't started pursuing her yet, and it's hard for her to reject you. She can only hint at rejecting you by mentioning another boy in front of you. For example:
You sing a love song to her, and she tells you that XXX emotions can only sing well. Last time I listened to him on KTV I was almost moved to tears when I sang;
You said you wanted to give the girl a gift, but she said no. Last time, XXX boy gave her a birthday gift, and she put a lot of thought into preparing the gift in return, so she didn’t want to owe anything. Your favor;
You said this girl’s skirt is really beautiful, is she serious? Last time xxx also said that my skirt looks good;
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Girls actually just want to reject you, so you don’t have to worry about this situation.
2. Girls want to make you jealous
If you have been in contact with a girl for a long time, but you have not clearly established a relationship with the girl, the girl will actually be secretly anxious. She hopes The person who likes her takes the initiative to establish a romantic relationship, so he mentions another boy in front of you to stimulate you and make you jealous, which is to make you feel a sense of crisis: what if she likes someone else. She wanted to say that it was time to hurry up and chase her, otherwise she would run away!
In fact, girls who have this idea reveal their inner lack of confidence, desire for love and passive love pattern. If you really like her, confess your feelings to her, otherwise she may become discouraged and leave. If you don't like her, take the initiative to distance yourself from her and don't give her so-called hope.
3. Girls satisfy their own needs
Some girls like to show off. She mentions another boy in front of you in the hope of getting more attention, especially when she likes In front of her people, she gained vanity satisfaction, recognition and security by doing so. Maybe she still likes you in essence, but she just can't restrain her desire to show off and let you know that there are other boys who appreciate her.
Faced with such a girl, even if she means it but she doesn’t mean it, you must express your attitude to her and hope that she can maintain a relationship with other boys. Distance, because you are a person who is dedicated to feelings, and I hope she can also be dedicated to you. Girls who like you will naturally understandHow to get along with other boys. As for a girl who doesn't like you, there is no need to care whether she is getting close to other boys.
If a girl mentions another boy in front of you just casually, there is no need for the boy to care so much. After all, girls also have their own social interactions, and worrying too much will make people feel depressed.