Girls always like to talk about boys, but sometimes boys’ answers make people feel boring or at a loss. So how should you respond next time you talk to a boy? This article will provide you with some practical advice.
1. Don’t introduce yourself too much
When a girl asks you a question, don’t just answer “ I'm fine" or "I'm handsome". Such an answer will make girls think you are too narcissistic. Instead, you can say something interesting, such as what interesting things you have done recently or what unique insights you have on a certain topic.
2. Stay positive and optimistic
Girls usually prefer to communicate with positive and optimistic people. If you are always complaining or negative, they may find it tiring to be around you. Therefore, try to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude during chats and share some happy things or jokes.
3. Details determine success or failure
In chatting, details are very important. If you can remember some of the little things she once mentioned to you and mention them in future chats, she will feel very warm and cared for. This is also an important step in building a relationship.
4. Don’t be too self-centered
In chatting, don’t always talk about yourself. You can ask the girl questions, such as what interesting things she has done recently or what she thinks about a certain topic. This will make her feel like you care about her and build a deeper connection.
5. Respect women
Respect women at all times. Don't use vulgar language or talk about inappropriate topics. If a girl feels uncomfortable about a certain topic, you should stop and change the topic immediately.
When chatting with girls, it is very important to stay positive, pay attention to details, and respect women. At the same time, don’t be too self-centered, ask questions, and share interesting things. This creates a deeper communication and enhances feelings for each other.