What are the commonly used techniques for chatting in love? Many friends have such questions. Today I will bring you some techniques for chatting in love. I hope it can help friends in need.
1. Understand the taboos in chatting between men and women
If you want to successfully chat in a relationship, Then you should avoid these minefields when dating and chatting: Don’t talk too much about your past relationship history during a relationship between a man and a woman. Revealing your heart and past love history soon after you get to know each other will not allow the other party to understand you quickly, but will instead undermine the relationship between both parties. Potential hidden dangers in development; during the dating process, avoid talking about negative energy and poisonous chicken soup from beginning to end, and always thinking about the worst when encountering problems...
2. No Forget the purpose of chatting, you will always succeed
The purpose of chatting in a relationship is not only to convey information, but mainly to gain the other person's favor, so that both parties can further develop and eventually be with each other. Therefore, when you are in love, you should pay attention to chatting to understand the other person, let the other person understand yourself, give the other person a sense of security and trust, and bring you closer to the other person. Therefore, chatting and communicating between men and women in love is not just a blind chat, but must be purposeful, otherwise it will seriously affect the relationship between the two.
3. Listen carefully to the other party’s conversation
Psychological research has found that nearly one-third of failures This awkward situation often occurs in blind dates: one party talks too much, and the other party cannot get in the conversation. In love, if you want the other person to like chatting with you, it is very important to learn to listen. In love, it often doesn't matter how much the other person says, but whether the other person listens to what you say. Listening not only encourages the other person to talk more, but also shows that you are interested in what the other person is saying. Couples in love can listen to each other's conversations with a smile and echo appropriately, which will greatly promote the further development of their relationship.
4. Choose the right chat topic
It is very important to talk about what topic to talk about in love. It is recommended not to talk about it in a large scale at the beginning, otherwise it will be very easy to be affected by the thinking, personality and opinions of both parties. Differences such as interests and hobbies have become obstacles to the further development of both parties. Therefore, you can chat about trivial things around you, entertainment gossip, the weather, recent hot topics and the other person’s feelings, which are all good sources of chat topics.
5. Ask less closed questions
"What are you doing, have you eaten?, you can follow Are you chatting, are you there?" and other similar questions. Keep asking. On the surface, it may seem like it's stirring up a topic. In fact, it makes the other party, especially the woman, disgusted and makes them not want to reply to you at all. Using this type of closed-ended questions in a relationship can make people feel particularly boring, it is easy to chat to death, it is recommended to have more open chats.
6. Smile more and be more humorous when chatting
Whether you are a man or a woman, you like to get along with people who smile often and are humorous. When facing people who are sunny, you will involuntarily Want to say more. Smiling is better than a pursed smile, which is nearly 30% better. There is no need to worry about whether your teeth are straight. Among the love chat techniques I know, humor is undoubtedly the simplest but best way to chat. If you are not good at words, slowly learn to smile. If new men and women want love to ferment quickly, becoming humorous is an indispensable link.
