If you like a girl, then you must be more proactive. Don't expect the girl to take the initiative to chat with you. Many boys actually know that they should take the initiative, but they have no idea how to take the initiative. They don't know what to say in the first sentence when chatting with a girl, and their relationship with a girl has never progressed. What to do?

1. Arouse curiosity

The correct formula: share experience + trigger

For example: When I was riding in the car today, I saw a girl on the side of the road who looked like you!

Or; What are you doing? Are you still in bed mode on weekends? /What are you doing? I guess you should eat something delicious outside?

One sentence triggers girls’ endless reverie!

The above two sentences are much more useful than the first sentence that many boys say when chatting with girls, "Are you there?". At least you can stimulate the girl's desire to reply to you. As long as she replies to you, Then you will have a chance to chat this time.

2. Ask about the opening

Girls are generally warm-hearted and are happy to do whatever they can. To help you, so you can start by asking, and the girl will be happy to help you reply. For example, you can ask her: "Have you watched XXX (the name of the newly released movie)? I plan to too." Let’s go and see it. I want to ask you how the movie was.”

“Have you been to Xxx’s hot pot? How does it taste? I have friends coming over recently and I plan to take them there to eat. Try it”

Things to note when asking questions: the questions you ask must be of interest to the girl, or something she has experienced, otherwise she will not be able to answer you, and the chat will naturally become cold.

3. Opening of the circle of friends

If you really don’t know what to say in the first sentence when chatting with a girl, Then first check the girl's circle of friends to see what she has played and done recently. Then when you chat with the girl, try to talk around what she has shown, such as:

A girl posts a photo of her trip to XXX in Moments. At this time, you can say something like this:

"I saw the photo you posted in Moments. Did you travel to xxx?"

"The photos in your Moments are so beautiful!"

If a girl shares a song in Moments, you can say:

"I've been listening to this song recently, I love it so much."

Girls will find it difficult to meet someone with the same hobbies, and they will be willing to chat with you more.

4. Eat, drink and playFun opening

Eating, drinking and having fun are generally topics that girls are more interested in. This topic is a great way to start a chat with girls. You can talk about anything about eating, drinking and having fun, such as:

I just finished eating Xiaolongkan with my friends, and the spicy taste of the beef is still lingering in my mouth, an indescribable feeling.

There are many points in this topic that girls can reply to.

For example, with friends, it shows your personality and social interaction. She can reply to how she and her friends play;

Another example is Xiaolongkan, she can reply to her eating The experience of hot pot, the whole body is filled with the smell of hot pot;

There is also beef, a dish that is indispensable for eating hot pot, and it has a lot in common;

Finally, there is also the smell of hot pot in the mouth The feeling of spiciness is indispensable when eating hot pot or eating spicy food.

There are multiple points in this sentence. Girls only need to choose one to reply to you, and you can continue the conversation along the topic.

In fact, it is not that difficult to say what the first sentence should be when chatting with girls. The key is that boys should not be ignorant and just say whatever they want. Although it is simple to say "are you there", girls may not reply to you at all.