If you find that the girl's interest is not high during the chat with the girl, and you ask her what's wrong out of concern for the girl, how can you make her happy when the girl says she is unhappy? You need to know that the girl is unhappy. What you say and do when you are young can make her lose interest, so trying to coax her well is the key.
The reasons why girls are unhappy
There is always a reason for a girl to be unhappy! If you and a girl are Male and female friends are concerned. As a boyfriend, should you reflect on when the girl's unhappiness started to explode? Ask for confirmation when you think of it and then prescribe the right medicine. If you really can't think of it, ask humbly. Girls don't want to tell. That is a problem for girls. Of course boys can give some guidance.
In addition, sometimes the reason why girls don’t want to say that they are unhappy may be that they feel that they are angry for no reason, and they don’t want to say it, and it would be embarrassing to say it (like me). Another possibility is that it is really hypocritical. I To be honest, I am quite annoyed by such people. Of course, if the boy thinks it is innocuous at this time, then it will be fine. Give some material feedback (the price depends on what kind of person the girl is, if she is the kind of person who loves expensive things) If it's a girl, just do what she wants. If she's a girl who loves herself very much, maybe you can go downstairs and buy her something she likes to eat or make her a cup of tea yourself, which can ease her mood), and the girl might be happier. At this time Then ask yourself what you did to make her so angry. I personally think that unless the problem is so serious that she can't understand that you can't find it, or she is really "making it", most girls will talk to you and know the problem. Wouldn't it be easy to solve the problem?
Listen to what girls say
Nowadays, many people seem to think of girls like that. We all have the same brain. Is the image of "I won't listen, I won't listen, I won't listen" really common when explaining things seriously? To be honest, girls say they are unhappy. Sometimes the problem cannot be solved by simply coaxing. of.
On the contrary, it is more useful to reason with unhappy girls. It is more useful to sort out the logic. Even if the girls will feel at first, "I am so unhappy, you don't try to coax me, but instead try to reason with me." But that Once the emotion is over, girls will listen to the truth you say. And if a girl is unhappy, if you just rely on coaxing, the problem will still exist after it gets better. Treating the symptoms but not the root cause. I have always felt that a healthy relationship between men and women means being reasonable. Of course, there are times when things don’t make sense, and then there is no need to talk about it for the time being. Don't tell.
I suggest that boys should not treat girls as unreasonable fools. Girls are reasonable when talking about reason! I still believe that there are many girls with good looks and brains. If you are really unlucky If you meet someone who evaluates love entirely based on money... I wish you good luck! Hahaha, early resolution.Take it off.
Behave in a way that makes her happy
In the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, be prepared if a girl is unhappy To comfort her, you need to focus on the core: "Don't just talk but not do", "Be responsible". As the first person responsible for appeasing girls, what do you suggest you do.
For example, if a girl sends a text message, "I'm not happy." What you can do is to call her immediately after receiving the text message to ask, and then comfort her. For example, if a girl tells you that she is "unhappy" to your face, you can first get her some food, then "Tell me what's wrong?" and then comfort her. This is much more effective than asking her what's wrong at first and then trying to comfort her partially.
Boys should not think that a girl is making trouble unreasonably when she says she is unhappy. Ask her more about what she is thinking and what she hopes for, instead of just asking a girl how to comfort her when she says she is unhappy. Go and Xini, maybe you can coax her well this time, but what about next time? Although a girl is happy with your coaxing, she hopes you can solve the problem for her. This is the fundamental thing.
