When chatting with a girl we just met, we often encounter such a situation, that is, there is no response after sending one message, and there is still no news after sending two or three messages, or there is a reply, but it is very perfunctory. Just let your thoughts disappear. I don’t know what will happen next.

How to chat with a girl you just met

If you want to successfully chat with a girl you just met, you need to master the following three skills:

1. Through the screening of girls

Many boys will complain a lot when faced with girls’ indifference, but who has ever thought about what are the prerequisites for heterosexual interactions? In fact, it is screening. When the girl you face meets your standards, what you should do is not to chat or please her right away, but how to pass her screening. Don't do it before the girl is still there. The stage when I don’t know you is the stage when I show my love. What I’m most afraid of is you. You are too impatient. If you meet a girl you like every time, you can’t help but ask for favors and expose your needs. Obviously I know this is not a smart choice, but there is no better way.

Then how to pass the screening of girls?

First of all, you have to show yourself to strangers. When striking up a conversation, if the only display you have is not able to generate interest and memory in it, it will completely forget it before long. So before speaking, first check whether your avatar name and circle of friends are qualified.

2. The opening remarks for chatting with a girl you just met

Then the next step is to break the ice. We need to understand that as long as it is a person, the most important thing she cares about is herself, so the opening statement should be as relevant to her as possible. If you can't find the topic, then start with the display in the circle of friends. If If the amount of information is not enough, you can also start chatting with the avatar.

3. Sincerity and sincerity are very important

Here, we need to emphasize that any technique is irrelevant. If you are not sincere, you don't know her preferences at the initial stage, and you don't have to find ways to find out what your fantasies are. If she takes the initiative to tell you through a simple chat, it can only mean that you are really delusional, and you think things will really fall from the sky. A sister Lin.

Therefore, during the initial period of contact, no one can break the unfamiliarity with just a few words. A sincere heart, accurate skills and sufficient patience are all indispensable. The consequence of impatience is The strangeness may become more and more serious, and you will become the one in her eyes. It is difficult to use scheming tricks, such as the following example:

The boy said, let’s eat hot pot together tomorrow!

The girl replied, I am here to be my aunt and cannot eat spicy food.

The boy went on to say that he didn’t eat very often.

Girls just roll their eyes. Such boys don’t consider girls’ feelings at all and just follow the body card routine. In fact, here, it can be reversed by just changing a sentence to reply. You can say this, I will take you to drink ginger soup. The underlying line is that if you are not feeling well, then I will take you to eat something that will make you comfortable.

Sometimes when chatting with girls, you really don’t need to make a long speech, as long as you can grasp the key points, even if it is a simple conversation, you It can make her feel your care and warmth, rather than just a routine.

To summarize, the display is a major prerequisite for establishing a chat through the initial screening. After that, the ice-breaking link must be slowly guided with sincerity and heart. If there are some small routines, It is also important to adjust the atmosphere. The ice can slowly evolve with warmth and time.