Many brothers will stutter when they meet someone they like, and they can’t even speak properly. They can obviously talk to girls very smoothly, but why do they act in front of the person they like? Do you know why? What should you do if you are afraid to talk to the person you like?

Why don’t boys dare to talk to the person they like?

In fact, this is a simple mentality problem. When you get along with an ordinary female friend, you are a friend. To get along with each other, and this status is equal. You don't need to take care of the girl's emotions, and you don't have to be scrupulous. Naturally, you can speak freely. But if you are facing a girl you like, you have no way to stay with the girl as a friend.

In this case, you will involuntarily put yourself in the position of a suitor and regard girls as goddesses , take her position very high, and at the same time lower your own position, you will become concerned about the girl's every move, and be willing to give unconditionally to please her and make her happy, thereby exposing your sense of need. . When a girl discovers your low profile, your sense of need will naturally feel unchallenging, and she will have no feelings for you. At this time, the probability that you think this girl will become very low.

What to do if you don’t dare to talk to the person you like?

In fact, it is very simple to change the state of not being able to talk to the person you like. Just treat girls as ordinary friends. If you have no other choice, then give yourself some psychological hints. For example, if she not only has bad breath but also smells bad when she poops, give your girl a layer of negative buff. From now on, you can treat the girl as an ordinary friend. , not only does it not expose any sense of need, but it is also very effective.

After you get to know the girl you like, you will find that chatting with her is not that difficult. In fact, it is just about overcoming a psychological problem.

I also understand that many brothers have less contact with girls and are not very good at getting along with girls. When I fell in love with a girl, I didn’t know how to take the initiative. In the end, the girl I liked was chased away by others, and I got drunk and cried alone. If you meet a girl you like, but you don’t know how to take the initiative or how to pursue her, and you are afraid of missing this girl because you don’t dare to pursue her, you can come to me and I will analyze and answer it for you based on your actual situation.