Most boys choose to go on a blind date to find a partner because they have no relationship experience and cannot get out of singles through other means. Even if these boys add the WeChat account of their blind date, they still don’t know how to chat with them. Today, the editor will share with you some tips on how to start a chat when looking for a blind date.
What is the best way to start a chat with a blind date?
1. Tell me your impression of her< /h3>
When facing a blind date you have just met, you can first talk about your impressions and feelings about her. You can also look for more resonance points and intersections through the other party's avatar and circle of friends to expand the topics between the two parties. People always care about themselves the most, so when talking about girls and your feelings about her, the response rate is often the highest.
“I feel like you are a pretty quiet girl”
“Looking at your circle of friends, you are a standard foodie, so we have something to talk about”
“ You have traveled to XX. I have also been there. XX is very fun."
"I feel like you are like a classmate of mine in middle school."
2. Briefly introduce yourself
Girls you meet on a blind date are generally more reserved. As a boy, you should take the initiative to introduce yourself to guide the girl to open up to you, so that the topic can continue and the conversation can continue. Girls have a general impression of you.
"I work in XXX, and my work is similar to yours. We can learn and communicate together."
"I should be a few years older. If you didn't tell me, I would have thought you were 19 years old”
“I am usually quite busy doing XXX work and often travel on business. I have traveled to most of China”
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3. Show your own shining points
If you want your blind date to like you, you must learn to show your own value and your own shining points. Just like when you face a very ordinary girl, she can't arouse your interest. At this time, she sent a photo of herself with a good figure, and you were instantly interested again. The reason is that you saw her value. The same goes for trying to attract girls.
“Recently, I feel like I’m anorexic when I eat grass every day, play iron and go to the gym.”
“My kitten is very clingy lately. She screams every time I go home and doesn’t come in.” "Called"
"I recently came to Shanghai for an exhibition and felt that there were so many people on the Bund. The last time I came here was 5 years ago"