If you can’t get out of singles through your own efforts, then you will definitely not be able to escape the blind date. However, whether it is a blind date or chasing a girl by yourself, the essence is the same, both are to make the girl like you. So how do you chat with your blind date to make her like you?

1. Set your mind right

When you first get to know a girl on a blind date, you need to set your mind right. Don’t talk to her in a very friendly tone when you first come up. Instead, talk to her in a friendly tone. Treat the girl on a blind date as a new friend, follow your inner voice, observe and think about other people, and try to look at the girl on a blind date with appreciation.

2. Meeting opening remarks

When we first get to know a girl on a blind date, we don’t recommend talking about it from the beginning. To formally introduce yourself, you must first close the psychological distance to create a sense of comfort. For example, we can say in a joking tone: "You were forced by your parents to go on a blind date, right?" After the blind date girl agreed with a smile, she continued: "I was also very repulsive before, but later I found that it is better to change my mentality and treat someone new Friends, and good relationships all start with friends, right?" Smiling at her while saying this, the atmosphere immediately relaxed a lot.

3. Seeking common ground while reserving differences on chat topics

The biggest problem in blind date chats is that there is no common topic, and if there are common topics, it will make your chat much easier. For example, if the two parties have in common that they have watched the same movie, they can openly share their similar and different opinions and feelings. The intertwined points will make the topic more in-depth. If you want to know more about the girl on the blind date, you can also ask her appropriate questions: < /p>

I want to hear more about you. Are there any important moments in your life?

Who is the person who has the greatest influence on you?

Now Is life what you want?"

Ask one question at a time and do not ask multiple questions at once. This can actually make a difference and allow you to have more interesting conversations with the girl you are dating.< /p>

4. Thinking and Judgment

As the time you spend chatting with the girl you are dating prolongs, you can also To judge whether she is the person you want to find, for example, you can observe these aspects:

Whether the girl on the blind date speaks logically and coherently, whether the boundaries between work and life are clear, and whether she is passionate about Food

Whether two people have common interests and hobbies, whether the girl on the blind date has a long-term hobby and is willing to work hard for it, the more important thing is to judge whether the girl on the blind date is satisfied with you.

< h2>5. Ask necessary questions

If you have questions that you really need to know during a blind date, be sure to ask them in a timely manner. For example, what are your requirements for your partner?Where do you plan to live in the future? Can you accept...? Many people feel confused after a blind date and don’t understand anything clearly, but they should also pay attention to some topic minefields:

For example, past love experiences, heavy topics, and paying too much attention to the material conditions of the girls on the blind date. , eager to show yourself, etc. Asking these questions is a mark-reducing behavior and must not be touched.

6. End the opportunity

If you chat with a girl on a blind date, what impression do you have of her? Not bad. If you want to have more contact, you can give more positive feedback to the girls on the blind date. For example, I feel that you are a very interesting person who loves life. We can communicate more if we have the opportunity in the future. In addition, when chatting about topics, you can focus on your hobbies and interests to see if there are any overlapping projects.

If you find that the girls on the blind date have topics that they are more interested in, you can chat with the girls on the blind date more about these topics, or you can give appropriate hints to the girls on the blind date: "This is very interesting, but I don't understand. Someone can teach you." Just teach me." If you give a hint like this, just click on it. As long as the girl you are dating is interested in you, she will naturally understand.