When many boys are chatting with the girl they like, they always can’t chat with the girl, so the other party doesn’t want to chat after a few words. So how can you chat to make the girl you like want to chat with you more? ?

How to make the girl you like want to chat with you more?

1. Pave the way for initial favorability

When a girl passes your friend application, the first thing she does What are you going to do later? That’s right, I just click on your circle of friends to get to know you.

So, why do girls respond so coldly to your opening remarks?

In fact, there is something wrong with the construction of your circle of friends.

To put it very realistically, when a girl clicks on your Moments for the first time and after browsing through it, the initial impression you leave on her will largely determine your future in her heart. A stranger, a casual friend, a close friend or a prospective boyfriend.

Therefore, improving your clothes, cultivating your own aesthetic attitude, rationalizing your self-packaging, and creating a positive attitude towards life are the tickets that will make girls want to chat with you.

2. Establish a personality

Many boys directly use the household registration-style chat method when they first communicate. The first sentence is to ask "Where are you from?" "What do you do?" ?" The girl looked at it, rolled her eyes, and thought she was a liar.

When you first start communicating, you should introduce yourself clearly in the shortest possible language. This is enough. After introducing yourself, bring up topics that the other party is interested in and smoothly introduce yourself. It's enough to keep the chat going.

A simple example:

"Hello, I want to get a cat recently. I would like to consult with you, a senior shit shoveler~"

"Hi~, Jay Chou's little fan girl"

"This multiple-choice question in the public examination is so perverted! I'll come to you to learn from you~"

In your opening remarks, you have established your character Only by doing this can you successfully make a girl put down her guard against you, and only then can she have an initial desire to chat with you.

3. Reverse rationalization prediction

In psychology, there is a method called reverse rationalization. In fact, you must have been exposed to this method more or less.

For example, if you search for some zodiac personality analysis charts on the Internet, you always feel that some of the analysis has penetrated your heart, as if the prediction of zodiac signs is really accurate.

However, if you read this kind of thing too much, you will find that: Pisces describes themselves very appropriately, but when you turn to the analysis of Taurus, it seems that there is a lot of content that overlaps with yourself.

To be honest, there are many horoscope analyzes or divination on the market, but they are all based onUse the technique of “reverse rationalization.”

Therefore, you can also use this method in the process of chatting with girls:

If she is a passionate girl, then you bet that she has a soft heart and worries about gains and losses. ;

If she is a gentle girl, then you bet that she is eager to be noticed and has a small universe ready to move.

4. Output value

The essence of chatting: not to prove "how much you like someone" , but "to attract girls and make her fall in love with you through the output of your personal value."

Rather than replying to each other within 24 hours, it is better to use this energy to make money. Career, let her see your progress;

Instead of buying breakfast and milk tea every day, it is better to spend the money to reshape your clothes and get a fitness body shape;

< p> Rather than scrimping on food and clothing and buying gifts for others, it is better to save money as soon as possible to buy a house and a car to make your personal value stand out...

Many times, the reason why people don’t like you is because you lose your temper. She has fallen into the vortex of "self-impression", but she has no value in herself to attract the other person. Naturally, she will not be able to convince herself that she likes you.