Recently, during a gathering with a few friends, the topic of love came up, and everyone unanimously mentioned a phenomenon: when a girl says "goodnight," the boy's response often reveals his emotional intelligence (EQ). This reminded me of some interesting stories and made me realize that the small details in a relationship can truly determine its direction.

First, let's talk about the "goodnight" ritual. Many girls, when saying "goodnight," aren't actually ready to sleep immediately but are testing the waters to see how the boy responds. Some boys will simply reply with a "goodnight" and leave it at that, while others might ask, "How was your day?" or "What are your plans for tomorrow?" This subtle difference can make a girl feel varying degrees of warmth.

I recall a conversation with my friend Xiao A, who mentioned that her boyfriend always sends an additional message after she says "goodnight," something like, "Sweet dreams, see you tomorrow." Although it's just a few simple words, Xiao A said it makes her feel particularly warm, as if he genuinely cares. On the other hand, another friend, Xiao B, complained that her boyfriend always coldly replies with "goodnight" and then disappears, making her feel like she's being brushed off.

In fact, these small details in a relationship often reflect whether someone is truly attentive. As mentioned in the article, love isn't just about sweet talk; it's also about the little acts of care in daily life. A high EQ boyfriend not only asks an extra question when you say "goodnight" but also silently accompanies you when you need it, and knows how to comfort you with words and actions when you're feeling down.

This reminds me of a comment from a netizen: "What's most feared in a relationship isn't fighting, but indifference." Indeed, indifference hurts more than arguments. At least fighting shows that both parties still care, while indifference signifies a gradual emotional distance. So, if you truly care about someone, take a little extra effort when she says "goodnight," even if it's just asking, "How was your day?" or "What are your plans for tomorrow?" These small gestures can often make the other person feel your concern and care.

Of course, high EQ in a relationship isn't just about the "goodnight" ritual. The article also mentions that girls in relationships should learn to step back in time and not overexert themselves in a wrong relationship. This reminds me of another friend, Xiao C's story. She and her boyfriend dated for four years before breaking up due to incompatibility. Although she was in pain at the time of the breakup, she didn't let it get her down. Instead, she found her rhythm again after the breakup. She said, "After the breakup, I realized I could live so well."

In fact, high EQ in a relationship isn"t just a trait for boys; girls need it too. Learning to stay clear-headed in a relationship and knowing when to step back is also a sign of high EQ. As the article says, "Learning to love yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." Whether you're a boy or a girl, remember that love is about making yourself better, not about plunging yourself into endless pain.

Finally, I'd like to end today's sharing with a quote from the article: "Love is the moment when self-doubt turns to clarity." I hope we can all find someone in love who makes us better, and I hope we can all learn how to love ourselves better in love. After all, love is an adventure of growth, and high EQ love is the most beautiful scenery on this adventure.

That's all for today's sharing. I hope everyone can find their own happiness in love. Goodnight, sweet dreams, and see you tomorrow!