I have just added a girl on WeChat. Due to reasons that I don’t know much about, many boys don’t know how to chat. The editor below will give you 4 tips for chatting with the girl you just added.
1. Test a girl’s liking for you first
After just adding a girl on WeChat, many In order to open up the topic, boys are always impatient and just ask this and that.
You know, we have just joined the girl’s WeChat account, and the girl is still wary of you. If you start a household registration-style chat, it will not only easily lead to a question-and-answer awkward chat mode, but also It's easy for girls to feel disgusted. After all, in the unfamiliar stage, frequent private chats will only make people feel harassed.
Therefore, the first thing we have to do is to control ourselves, don’t be too proactive, and first test whether the girl has the motivation to chat. For example, you can send her a cute emoticon, or call her cute. Use her responses to determine how motivated she is to talk to you.
Or check out her circle of friends, like and comment on her circle of friends. Like is the simplest way to chat, or you can post to Moments from time to time, and the content happens to be the type she is interested in. If your first impression is not particularly bad, it is not difficult to start a conversation. Make her feel that she is taking the initiative and is willing to chat.
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2. Talk about some relaxing topics
After opening the topic, if we want to feel good about ourselves and get closer to the girl, then we need to choose some relaxing topics. topic to create a relaxed chat atmosphere.
For example: You can show your personality traits, hobbies and expertise during the chat.
Interesting things at work: Create a hard-working and progressive image for girls.
Interesting things during the trip: Girls are full of interest in the unknown. Tell girls about the places you have been and what you have experienced, and the topic will start naturally.
The latest gossip entertainment: If you feel that gossiping with girls is a bit boring, you can chat with girls about the latest popular movies
Customs, customs and eating habits: topics about hometown can create a sense of humor for girls. A feeling of reliability, stability and deep affection.
Three views and life status: Talk about the life status you most yearn for, and describe a future for the other person that you will work hard for.
Personal interests and hobbies: Understand each other’s interests and chat about some interesting topics that will make girls laugh.
3. Don’t finish chatting all at once, master the rhythm of chatting
You must be proactive when flirting with girls, but if you are too proactive, you will only lose the initiative. And make girls lose interest in you. Therefore, you must control the rhythm of chatting, such as:
Prolong the reply time appropriately.
Don’t chat with girls all the time. You have your own life. It’s not a chat that stays online all day long. You have to have your own things to do and let her adapt to your rhythm and schedule.
It can be specific to the rhythm of a certain conversation, and you don’t have to be the first. Give her time to reply to her statement. Waiting for a while and delaying your reply will show that you don't attach much importance to this chat. Secondly, it will give you time to think about how to reply.
Don't always take the initiative and guide the girl. Taking the initiative
Attracting a woman is not about how much you know about a woman, but whether a woman can take the initiative towards you. What you have to do is to show yourself, do your best to attract, and let girls take the initiative towards you.
It’s not important to know a woman, but it’s important to make her want to know you. Don’t tell her your story all at once, so she can understand everything about you at once. Tell the story slowly and keep the pace of the story. It is an attraction.
4. Show value and attract girls
If you just talk to yourself. If it is an irrelevant topic, it will be difficult for you to attract this girl. At best, it can only become a best friend relationship.
If we want to attract her, we need to learn to show our own value, just like a peacock. Similarly, you should open your screen appropriately to show your reproductive value.
Of course, there are also techniques to show your value. For example, if you say: "I am rich, be my girlfriend" or "My family is rich." "Money, how many houses and cars". It will make the other party feel that you are a nouveau riche, and it will be difficult for girls to accept you. At this time, you need to tell her indirectly.
Guide her to ask you by throwing hooks Question. For example, if you want to show your family's wealth, you can say: "My mother is so annoying." If she asks you what's wrong, you can say: "I live on the 3rd floor and my mother is on the 2nd floor. She insists on me going. Get her a Coke on the first floor. If I didn't like it, she would scold me. "In this way, your value can be displayed naturally.
Another way is to use your behavior pattern to show it. For example, you suddenly stopped replying to her while chatting. . Reply to her every 2 hours: "I was swimming/meeting/cooking just now." After showing your value, you still need to get to know the other person.
