When chatting with girls, awkward chatting is not scary. What is scary is that you are obviously chatting awkwardly, but you don’t know it, and you are still trying to find a topic to continue chatting with. In the end, you are blocked and you can’t find the reason. Below, the editor will analyze for you why chatting with girls is awkward and how to avoid awkward chatting.

1. Why is it awkward to chat with girls?

Chatting with girls It turned into an awkward chat. The reason is that your chat was in a state of unequal communication for a long time, and you did not interrupt the topic at the right time to force the chat. In the end, it turned into an awkward chat.

Awkward chats are generally divided into three categories:

1. Awkward opening

Awkward chats at the beginning are usually due to the boys’ own problems, and many boys find it When chatting with girls, it always starts with the triple death sequence: Are you there? Have you eaten? What are you doing? It’s not uncommon for people who still chat with girls like this in this era to be disliked by girls.

　2. Awkwardness in the middle

Some boys and girls start their chat very well, but because they do not prepare enough chat topics and topics, they run out of topics while chatting. So the chat turned into an awkward chat.

3. Awkward ending

Boys who have awkward chats at the end are usually because they have a strong sense of need and resort to mechanical tricks. Before ending the chat, I made an invitation, but the girl refused, thus revealing a strong sense of need.

In fact, many times the awkward chat is not a person’s responsibility. Sometimes it may be because you don’t know how to chat. The reason is that the atmosphere is awkward, but sometimes it is also the case that girls don’t know how to chat, and girls chat with you awkwardly!

Exclude the situation where both people can chat well, and any other chat is not pleasant, and one party is forcing it Awkward chatting will lead to awkward chatting! So how to avoid awkward chatting when chatting with girls?

2. Chatting with girls How to avoid awkward chats

The most important thing when chatting with girls is not what you say? It’s your attitude, but who you are!

What needs to be cultivated must be your own core self-confidence. , for example, why do boys feel that they are embarrassed when chatting?

Because they feel that their chatting skills are not good, which embarrasses girls and makes the chat atmosphere between two people bad. It was because I was too bad, so I tried every means to solve myself, to deny myself, and to try to make myself better. In fact, I was going the wrong way.

A boy who has an attitude and can attract girls will never deny himself. Even if he is in a bad mood sometimes, he will not feel uncomfortable because people have feelings, consisting of joy, anger, sorrow and joy. Got itShouldn’t your friends accept your true self?

Who you are determines how difficult it is for you to chat with girls!

If your own value is so low that girls won’t even bother to interact with you. Even if you are eloquent, talk like lotuses, and compete with others, a girl can knock your self-confidence from a king to a bronze 5 with just one word. The construction of attraction can generate attraction, and at the same time it can help you create stronger attraction!

If you sometimes feel that chatting is too difficult, in addition to improving your chatting skills, you must also remember to improve your overall value.

If chatting is an exam, then the value is your review homework. The two cannot exist completely independently!