People are more emotional at night, especially girls. Therefore, if you want to deepen your understanding of each other and heat up your relationship with a girl, the ideal situation is to chat with the girl at night. What topics should you chat with the girl at night? Which one is better?
1. Tell jokes
Female: "I keep losing my hair recently"
Male: "Do you know why?"
p>Female: "Why?"
Male: "The reason you lost your hair is because you haven't been in love for too long. Your head thinks you have become a monk, so..."
Telling jokes can arouse the other person's emotions as quickly as possible, but if you want a girl to think you are a humorous person and then become interested in you, you still need to work hard.
There is no need to read a lot of jokes in the early stage just to please the other person. It is also okay to share with the other person the most interesting thing/picture or emoticon/that you saw that day.
2. Talk about your first impression of her
When talking about your first impression of her, Mainly praise.
"When I first met you, I felt a different kind of intimacy. Although you looked careless on the surface, I knew you must be a kind-hearted girl..."< /p>
In psychology, giving recognition and praise to your partner can quickly make the other person like you, but be sure not to use too much force and turn it into pandering and flattery.
There are three key points when praising a girl: praise the details, praise the characteristics that others have not praised, and praise the characteristics that the other party does not know. And add some of your expectations for her in a timely manner.
The reason why you need to praise the details is because if you praise someone well but cannot explain the specific way, it will make the other person feel that you are perfunctory;
Praise others Points that have not been praised can avoid homogeneity and make her feel that you are different from others;
And praising some points that the other party does not know about can make her feel "unexpected but unexpected" "It makes sense", it turns out that you pay more attention to her than she does.
3. Tell stories
Girl: "Did you raise the puppy in your profile picture?" ”
Male: “Yes, it has been with me for many years”
Female: “Is it because of the cold weather? Why did you give it a set of clothes?”
Male: "It's a long story... When I was in school... I made a bet with my buddies... Whoever gives birth to a baby will change his profile picture to a picture of the baby... and the next generation will I want to buy a game skin for my husband."
Female: "So what?"
Male: "No one thought...our dogs all have babies.... We were not single yet... Later, we bought him a set of clothes as soon as we got together..."
Everyone has their own story, and telling stories has the following benefits : Sometimes we are not only worried about running out of topics, but girls also have the situation of "I don't know how to answer this", but there are many topic points for the other party to respond to in a story.
It's like. Among the random examples I gave above, there are "pets.school.clothes.undressed.avatar", etc. This is called the keyword chat method.
In addition, storytelling can show you what you want inadvertently. Let the other party know some personal information, such as "You are single now. You like small animals. You have some interesting friends", etc. This information can trigger the other party to "want to exchange information with you." Behavior, so that we can better understand the other half.
The second part is the topic of establishing a sense of connection.
Let’s make a long story short. If you don’t understand, please tell me. Send private messages to communicate. The core idea of ??establishing a sense of connection is to "make the other party feel that you have known each other for a long time, have many common interests, and have a certain emotional foundation and tacit understanding."
4. Recommend to her
A book/a movie/anime/even a game
Explain the reasons for the recommendation , why you think she will like it, and your views on these things, it will be better if the two of you participate together, and you will have more reasons to ask her out when you invite her. Be more confident, and don’t worry about her not liking the hobbies you recommend to her. .We have different tastes, how can we live together in the future? Common hobbies need to be cultivated.
5. Be attentive
Night is the time when people are most emotional and pretentious, and it is inevitable that they will be. Make some emotional catharsis, remembering the past and lamenting the present, while lamenting "how far away it is". When a person is secretly sad, it would be better if you go to make her happy instead of accompanying her. A sense of connection through common hobbies, and "having a common tear point" is also a sense of connection.
6. Giving each other nicknames.
Using a nickname can help you quickly become friendly with someone, but you must be careful not to offend the other person.
A good nickname has the following characteristics: it is refined and can be seen everywhere. Call her little sister, let’s not call her that; a sense of exclusivity, you only call her that, and you won’t call others that. Only you can call her that, and others can’t call her that; it has connotation, and you two look at each other and smile. Just understand the tacit understanding, using the principles of collusion and anchoring in psychology
