How to chat with a slow-warming girl
How to chat with a slow-warming girl? Chatting is an easy way to enhance feelings, but many boys don’t know how to chat when they are pursuing girls. In fact, chatting should be based on the girl’s personality characteristics. Let’s share how to chat with a slow-warming girl?
1. Choose girls to chat in their free time
A slow-burning girl’s day is actually quite busy. Maybe she needs to deal with various tasks at work, and needs to read while studying. Between writing homework and listening to lectures, I may only have time to chat during lunch.
The afternoon is the same as the morning again, and it’s finally evening. You may want to go out for a walk, or you may want to be quiet and play a few games of Honor of Kings in peace, or go for a walk with your best friends on the street, carrying Memorize vocabulary and read novels. After doing this, I still have to do laundry, wash sheets, hang clothes and other small tasks. Finally, I still need to wash up. Finally, I put on a facial mask and lie on the bed. It’s so comfortable. Then check out Douyin.
You see, a slow-warming girl may not seem busy throughout the day, but she is actually very busy. If you choose to disturb her when she is busy, it will be strange that she will have a good impression of you. That’s why it’s so important to choose slow-warming girls to chat with when they’re free, otherwise whatever you say may not be pleasing to you and you’ll be labeled as having no vision.
2. Chat based on the girl’s reply time
You can also refer to the girl’s reply time for the frequency of chatting with a slow-warming girl:
1. If you say something It took more than ten minutes for her to reply. What should you do? You should reply to her immediately, and then check the speed of her reply. If she takes more than ten minutes to reply. It means that she is doing something, but I don’t know what the specific thing is. At this time, you shouldn't reply immediately or say too much. You should reply to her after a few minutes. Prolong the tempo of the chat. The two of them chatted calmly and calmly. There is no doubt that other people are busy with things, and you are there to push them to no end.
2. If you say something, she replies after a few minutes. Then you reply to her and she replies to you immediately. What to do? Let’s chat a few more words. If everyone replies pretty quickly, it means both people are free and have time to chat. OK, let’s chat. If she doesn't say stop, don't stop.
3. If you say something, it takes several hours for her to reply, and then you reply to her, and it takes a long time for her to reply to you. What to do? Let’s chat a few more words. Look at her reply speed. If it's fast, it means she's finished and start chatting. If it's still slow, don't disturb her, she's busy. And it's very busy.
In fact, it’s not that many boys don’t know how to chat with slow-warming girls, but they don’t have the discernment to talk, and they don’t control the frequency of chatting with slow-warming girls. They can’t tell whether they are free, busy or in the mood. , insist on chatting, of course that girl doesn’t have a good attitude towards you. Just imagine, you are playing mobile games there, and your friends keep flashing you, and you are disconnected while playing a group game. Are you annoyed? This is a truth.
How to continue the topic when chatting with a slow-warming girl
1. Pay attention to the rhythm of chatting with girls.
Many brothers rush to say what girls can say, leaving girls with nothing to say. Just like Guo Degang took away all Yu Qian's lines in cross talk, and Yu Qian still had a few lines. talk? It’s nothing more than right, um, yeah. So when chatting with a girl, don't rush to answer. When a girl doesn't reply for a while, she starts to add words or rush to talk. This is taboo.
2. Be open-minded when chatting with girls
Many people pay great attention to their own image when chatting with girls and do not dare to talk about gossip. In fact, there is nothing interesting to talk about when chatting with girls about hobbies and interests. Why do you say that? Because at first she felt that you also liked this, just like discovering a soulmate, and she was very excited to tell you about it, but she talks about it every day. , you know it very well but you only know a little about it, it will be very boring.
Methods to continue the topic when chatting with girls
1. Talk about topics related to emotions
You should talk about topics related to "emotions", such as childhood memories , future aspirations, or her hobbies. Such topics can open the floodgates of her emotions.
2. Control the chat topic
Women like men who have the ability to control her. When talking to women, control the topics you talk to girls about. Don't wait for her to tell you what to talk about.
3. Pay attention to the verbal cues from girls
Pay attention to the non-verbal cues that women give you. If you stand too close to her, spit when you talk, or otherwise make her uncomfortable, she will give you cues to pay attention to.
4. Humor but not funny
Remember this maxim: "Funny but not funny." Women are attracted to men who make them happy. Don't just think about telling the funniest jokes, but focus on showing them the most exciting and fun things.
5. Tease her
Tease her. The easiest way to spice up a conversation is to flirt with the ladies. Think back to how you played with girls on the school playground. What worked for attracting girls back then works perfectly for dating now.
Techniques for continuing the topic when chatting with slow girls
1. Keyword chat method
The keyword chat method, as the name suggests, is to seize the keywords in the topic to maintain and continue the chat topic. Therefore, when chatting with the other party, grab a certain keyword in the other party's speech, and then use this keyword to talk about your experiences, opinions, feelings, or stories related to other people, etc., and you can maintain Normal topic communication.
2. Talk about topics that women are interested in.
The so-called knowing yourself and the enemy means you will never be defeated in a hundred battles. Since weIf you want to chat well with girls, you must have a deep understanding of what girls like to chat about. After summarizing, I found that: emotions, pets, food, gossip, art, and celebrities are all topics that women like. Of course, we also need to prescribe the right medicine and decide the menu according to the needs of the people.
What to talk about when chatting with girls
1. Family and friends
Family members are people we have known since childhood, so there are often many interesting topics, and If we talk to a girl about our family members, it will bring you closer to her; however, you must share your own information first before you can ask for the other person's information, otherwise the other person is likely to be unwilling to tell.
2. Talk about career
If the chat about career is very superficial and the other party doesn’t want to talk about it, it is easy to run out of topics, so we need to guide the other party to talk in depth!
3. Talk about entertainment
"What do you like to do when you have a break?", "Why do you like it so much?", "How do you feel when you do XX?", " Why do you feel this way? ”
4. Talking about dreams
In fact, many people cannot stick to their dreams because they have not achieved financial freedom and need to work to support themselves. People can only hide their dreams in their hearts. For those who have dreams, if you show support for their dreams, she will like you!
