When you are dating a girl, being able to chat is a big advantage. Ambiguous chatting can make you and the girl familiar with each other, and can also enhance your relationship!
However, the chat needs to be topical. Yes, there is no topic, and you can’t even force yourself to chat with girls. If you don’t chat with girls, they will forget you in two days.
Learning how to chat with girls and find topics can help you get rid of the troubles of being single as soon as possible and realize your love ideas.
What to do if you can’t chat with girls
Do you think you can’t chat with girls? In fact, this is This kind of thinking is a kind of fixed thinking. This kind of thinking often derives some views such as: I can't chase girls, I don't know how to chat with girls, some people are born to flirt with girls, and some people are destined to be honest people... …
When people face chatting with girls (problems they have never dealt with before or problems that are difficult in their impression), it is easy to fail for the first time, resulting in awkward conversations, no topics, and sudden silence. and other emergencies.
After the chat fails, I will feel that I am stupid, unable to flirt, and an honest person, thus labeling myself as not being able to chat, and not daring to chat with girls.
Chatting with girls does require talent. Some people are eloquent, and some people can’t hold back a word for a long time, but None of these issues should stop you from chatting with girls.
The key is that you decide that you don’t know how to chat. Your definition of yourself is - I don’t know how to chat, which also limits your ability to learn to chat with girls.
Think about it, what do you need to chat with girls? Topics, expressions, emoticons, compliments, emotional teasing, ambiguity, humor...
If you never think about a perfect What is needed for chatting, then you will always be in a state of not being able to chat.
How to find chat topics
1. Find topics from girls’ friend circles, such as girls’ friend circles A few days ago, you posted the food you cooked, so you can talk to her about how she learned to cook, what she likes to eat, and what her specialty dishes are...
2. Find topics from the girl’s hobbies , for example, girls like to play LOL, then you can go and play LOL, and then talk to the girls about when you can open black, what position you like to play, and meet the most embarrassing teammates...
3. From girls Find topics based on the character of a girl. For example, a girl is always very cautious when speaking, then you can casually speculate on her character - I found that you speak very carefully, are you a scheming girl?
4. From the girl mood looking for topics, for example, a girl speaks in a more fiery tone, then you can guess that she is not in a good mood today, and then ask her - Teacher Ma, Teacher Ma, what happened?
5. Take the initiative to release the topic. For example, if you encounter something interesting today, you can take the initiative to share it with the girls, and then start your chat topic from this matter. Of course, sometimes you can make up an interesting thing (it must be consistent with common sense, the editor It’s definitely not allowed if it’s too outrageous).