When it comes to the topic of pursuing girls in university, I can't help but share some interesting insights. Back in my university days, there were always a few friends who were constantly downcast, complaining about how difficult it was to chase girls. In reality, university is the best time for romance, not only because it's cost-effective but also because everyone's intentions are relatively pure.
First of all, we need to understand one thing: not all girls are hard to pursue. Those who appear particularly outgoing and popular are indeed more challenging. On the other hand, introverted and quiet girls are often more easily moved by your sincerity. I had a roommate like that, usually not talkative but very attentive, who eventually won over a very gentle girl, and they are now married with children.
When it comes to pursuing girls, understanding their subtle hints is crucial. Sometimes when a girl says, "I've been really busy lately," it might not be a rejection but a hint that you need to be more proactive. A friend of mine encountered this situation; the girl said she was busy, and he took it at face value, missing his chance. Later, he learned that when a girl says she's busy, he should respond, "Then let's go watch a movie after you're done?" and the girl happily agreed.
Of course, chasing girls isn"t just about techniques; you also need to have your own career and goals. In university, everyone is striving for their future. If you have a clear goal and are working hard towards it, girls will find you attractive. I know a senior who started blogging in university. Although no one understood him at first, he persisted for six years, eventually achieving success in his career and attracting many girls who pursued him.
However, chasing girls isn't everything in life. The most important thing in university is to find your direction and do what you love. Sometimes, being alone can help you focus more. I have a classmate who focused on his research throughout his four years in university. Although he didn't date, he achieved great success after graduation and now has many suitors.
Finally, I want to say that chasing girls isn't that complicated. As long as you are sincere, have goals, and understand the subtle hints of girls, your chances of success are quite high. Of course, if you haven't met the right person yet, don't rush. Focus on building your career first, and better options will naturally come your way in the future. After all, a real man doesn't worry about not having a wife!
In summary, pursuing girls in university requires both heart and mind. I hope my sharing can be helpful to you all, and I wish you all find your own happiness in university!