Have you ever encountered a situation where you felt like you were having a good conversation with a girl, but slowly, the girl stopped replying while chatting? This situation must have left many boys scratching their heads. , I don’t know what the girl means, and I don’t know whether to continue chatting. Let me analyze for you if a girl stops replying while chatting, should we stop chatting?

1. Reasons why girls stop replying while chatting

1. The girl thinks you are inappropriate

If the girl still chats with you enthusiastically at the beginning Yes, but then it gradually became very slow to reply to your messages, and in the end, she stopped replying to you. It is probably because the girl feels that it is not appropriate to be with you. Because she didn’t know much about you at the beginning, but as your chat deepened, she felt inappropriate after getting to know you, and the more she chatted with you, the colder she became.

2. The girl has lost her patience with you

Maybe you feel happy chatting with the girl at first, not because the girl has a crush on you, but because she responds enthusiastically to you out of politeness . But then she realized that you were still chatting with her. When you exhausted her patience, she naturally didn't want to continue chatting with you.

3. The girl is busy/not in the mood to chat

If you find that a girl rarely takes the initiative to find her You chat, but occasionally she will take the initiative to expand topics and talk to you about her worries. Then she still has a good impression of you and will never deliberately not reply. If she stops replying while chatting, it may be because she is really busy or not in the mood to start chatting with you at that time.

4. The chat topic is too boring

If the chat topic between you and a girl is too boring or the girl cannot answer it at all, then it is normal for the girl not to reply to you.

For example, you always ask boring topics like "Have you eaten? What did you eat for lunch?"

2. What to do if a girl stops talking while chatting

After a girl stops talking while chatting, boys should first solve the mentality problem. Because as soon as some boys find that a girl suddenly stops replying, they start to worry about gains and losses. They take a look at the chat history and reflect on whether they said something wrong? In fact, most of the time, boys don't say the wrong thing, but they usually have a common misunderstanding. They think: In the relationship between two people, their own performance is the main factor that causes the girl's behavior to change. But in fact, this is just what we boys think. Girls think about things completely different from us.

In the relationship between men and women, boys must have one goal in chatting: to pursue girls. Girls are different. They usually chat without a clear goal. At most, they just want to kill time. If your chat makes her more and more bored, she may jump off at any time.

For example: a boy asks a girl to go to the movies on the weekend. As long as the boy does not encounter any emergencies, he will regard watching the movie as something he must do;

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But a girl is different. As long as she has not accepted the boy across from her, any little thing that happens in her life may affect her ability to keep her appointment (not sleeping well, having a fight with her parents, having friction with her roommate) .....) According to them, they are out of mood.

Girls are controlled by emotions, while boys are controlled by desires; emotions are affected by the environment, and desires are directed towards specific goals - this is The difference in thinking between men and women.

The reason why boys always think that they said the wrong thing and the girl didn’t reply is because: he regards girls as targets, and he thinks that girls also regard us as targets. How you observe a girl is how you think she is observing you. This kind of judgment is actually very unreliable. Before entering a certain emotional stage, it is impossible for others to pay attention to our performance as we pay attention to her. It is this misalignment that makes us worry about gains and losses. , causing us to be timid and afraid to express ourselves every time we chat.

Finally, in addition to maintaining a mentality and preventing worries about gains and losses, you should also pay attention to the topic selection in the chat and learn some chat skills. After all, the chat content is too boring. , it will indeed make people less interested in replying.