No matter how you meet a girl, chatting is the key to a romantic relationship, and this is especially true for blind dates. Only after chatting on WeChat can you have the possibility to go further. So how can we successfully chat on WeChat after a blind date?

How can we successfully chat on WeChat after a blind date?

1. Provide more and ask less questions, and maintain a balanced interaction

The balance of interaction represents both parties’ commitment to the chat. Engagement, engagement represents the level of interest of both parties. If your chat with a girl turns into a stand-up comedy, believe me, the girl's interest in you must be very low. In addition, be sure not to ask questions continuously. Asking questions will not make a girl like you. Instead, it will make a woman feel that you are asking for value and make her feel bored.

　“What are you doing, have you slept, good morning, good night?” This is called asking for value

“I just came out of the health room, and I was invited to have barbecue by my friends. It was the same as before. This is called providing value.

If a girl replies to you in an hour, don’t reply to her in a minute; if she only knows two words about you, don’t make a long speech. Don't let a woman feel that you are doing nothing and being idle every day. If a girl is not enthusiastic enough, don't be hot and cold; if a girl is in a good mood, don't pretend to be cold. In short, keep the interaction balanced in chatting.

2. Talk less about logical and serious topics and more about light-hearted and pleasant topics

Chatting with girls on a blind date is not a good idea. Talking about business is not about academic research, but about building goodwill and warming up relationships through chatting. The development of relationships is like watching a movie. It should have a relaxed and interesting atmosphere, but also have tense and exciting scenes. Follow the protagonist and experience the ups and downs. Eventually, the girl will fall in love with you.

The so-called speaking skills, push and pull, emotional roller coaster, and earthy love words, are actually all designed to arouse girls' emotions.

“Your photos are quite cute, I’ll give you a 9 out of 100”

“I really want to go back to when I was a kid and I would make you laugh when you cried” If you laugh, I will make you cry again."

"I will reward you with a little red flower for being so well-behaved." "You have to wait until the wedding to hold the big flower in your hands."

3. Learn Take the initiative to provide topics, don’t chat just for the sake of chatting

Girls are passive social creatures. Even if they have a good impression of you, they will rarely take the initiative to lead the conversation. As a boy, you have the responsibility to lead the conversation and lead the relationship. Don’t let girls on a blind date chase you. In the conversation, boys have to bear 80% of the responsibility, and girls are only responsible for the 20%.

In addition, don’t chat just for the sake of chatting, and talk to girls about unnutritious topics, such as "Good morning, good night, and happy holidays." These topics cannot build any attraction, norYou can't bring any emotions to girls, it's just chatting for the sake of chatting. This will consume the girl's original favorability towards you.

4. There must be a plan for chatting, and avoid being aimless

Chatting must be planned and planned. Don’t talk aimlessly about the process and organization. In order to build goodwill and warm up the relationship when chatting, you need to plan according to the stages of the relationship and plan the goals of each chat instead of chatting randomly.

Strange > Familiar > Liked > Ambiguous > Flirting > Boy and girl friends

For example, if you are currently in the unfamiliar stage, you need to break the ice and build goodwill through chatting.

For example, if you are currently in the flirting stage, you need to invite someone as soon as possible to make the relationship a reality.