There are big differences in the thinking of men and women. There are some ways of chatting between boys that are error-free, but when used with girls, it may have the opposite effect. This is why those boys who think they are good at chatting with girls The reason for frequent overturning during chatting. Today, the editor will clear up the minefields for everyone. You must pay attention to the following two wrong ways of chatting with girls.
1. The walking emoticon straight man
The emoticon is really a great one Discover, sometimes you don’t know what to say when chatting, but you don’t want to be embarrassed. If you send a cute or funny emoticon, the atmosphere will be much better.
But unfortunately, some boys’ straight emojis are so ugly that you just want to poke your eyes out when you see them.
No matter how heated the conversation was, I immediately stopped when I saw these hilarious emoticons!
There are also some boys who don’t know whether they are too lazy to type or what, the whole process I only post emoticons (complaints from close friends).
Invisibly opened up a new use of emoticons, but the inner OS of my best friend is: What on earth do you want to do?
And said that after reading it, she just wanted to send "Excuse me" ?”
Therefore, emoticons should be used with caution, otherwise no one can save you if you become embarrassed.
The girl opposite you is the kind who likes beautiful and cute things, not the kind who wants to be your brother. .
Do you want to consciously classify yourself as a "brother" by posting these straight man emoticons?
If she fights with you, would you say are you happy or not? Are you happy?
So, when using emoticons, remember to consider the feelings of the person opposite.
If you look at those boys who are good at pleasing others, you will master a truth: to make others happy, you have to give them what they want.
2. Excessive display of yourself
In front of girls, everyone must know how to show their attractiveness. Whether you are eloquent, always make girls giggle when chatting, or you know how to package your appearance to attract girls' attention to you, it is a way to promote yourself.
Since you are good enough, there is nothing wrong with showing it boldly and publicizing it appropriately.
However, you must also control the display properly, and don’t go too far in everything, otherwise it will be a bit annoying.
It’s like saying, we haven’t even talked about it for a while, so you start adding value to yourself. Why have you recently become a boss? This company is poaching me recently, and that state-owned enterprise also wants to focus on training me.Ah, I have been to several countries and so on.
If you chat with others like this every day, and no one blocks you or rolls their eyes, then you are really a good friend worth cherishing for a lifetime!
In short, people are like each other. Getting along with each other has a long way to go, but don't be too anxious. Talking too much at once will only make the other person think you are showing off, which will lower their goodwill. It's better to speak slowly and create some novelty for subsequent contacts, don't you think?
