If you have just started dating a girl and want to recommend a relationship to hold hands with, then you must ask the following questions: When is the best time to try holding hands with a girl on a date? Are there any ways to hold hands without being resisted? Is there any way to date a girl? Don’t worry, I will answer it for you slowly below.
How many times can you hold hands on a date with a girl?
In fact, it is most taboo to use the same formula as a question when it comes to holding hands on a date with a girl, because when you and a girl hold hands on a date, you need to It depends on the channel through which you met the girl, the atmosphere of your date, and how the girl feels about you.
If you and the girl develop a relationship from colleagues, classmates, or friends, then she can agree to you dating alone. As long as she doesn't stay, she basically has ideas. As for holding hands, as long as the atmosphere is there and the topic becomes hot, you can even hold hands on the first date. However, for the sake of maintaining image, you can push it back appropriately.
If you and the girl met online or by chance, and chatted for ten days and a half, can I agree to meet you? Basically it becomes half. After meeting for the first time, it is basically 90% that you can make an appointment for the second time. Therefore, apart from not getting started the first time, just start looking for a good opportunity the second time.
Girls who meet through blind dates or introductions from friends. This kind of two people go from complete strangers to acquaintances, and they also have a cross-friend relationship.
Then the speed should be slower and more decent. If you go on 3-5 dates, it’s okay to hold hands if you’re optimistic about the feedback.
How to hold hands with a girl on a date
As for the method of holding hands on a date, holding hands has less to do with the method and more to do with the person. When driving on the road, passing traffic lights, or strolling in the mall, take advantage of the situation. Don’t ask, don’t tell, just do.
Don’t look at how those girls on the Internet are so eccentric and playful. What's "If you hold hands after only two or three times, he must be a Neptune, I definitely won't agree." What's "It's not prudent to do things so quickly. I must have a very bad impression." If you believe it, it's useless.
Because they are online and face computers, which are abstract and cold. At this time, she saw a group of men discussing dating routines again. She must be defensive, conservative, and male-hating at heart. That conditioned reflex will cause resistance.
But in reality, she faced a boy who she was willing to date alone, especially a boy who could make her think carefully and interest her. At this time, you may be surprised that a good girl can be so tolerant of the opposite sex.
In the past, when girls took the initiative towards me, I would usually just lie down and let her enjoy the pleasure of driving and guiding me. And allThe girls who asked me to take the initiative were all introverted girls. As long as she meets the premise that she is interested in you, really, she is interested. You don’t need to be awesome enough to make her fall in love at first sight. At this time, your less aggressive aggression will only make them more excited and remember them more deeply. . She doesn't think about resistance at all, she only thinks about how to act more reserved and ladylike to avoid appearing frivolous, and at the same time, she can resist and welcome so that the boy can feel her feedback.
Therefore, don’t talk about crossing the line, talking about being hands-on, or talking about being abrupt. Holding hands on a date is really the most basic relationship test. If you are particularly resistant to even this, then it’s nonsense. This person is wrong, so withdraw as soon as possible, you can't handle this girl.