Chat is an indispensable part of interpersonal communication, and ambiguous topics are a way to make people's hearts beat faster. But how to break into ambiguous topics and how to talk about them? Let’s share some experiences below.
1. Start with the other person’s interests and hobbies
Understanding the other person’s interests and hobbies can make it easier for you to find common topics. For example, if the other person likes traveling, you can ask him/her where he/she likes to go most, if he/she has any special experiences, etc. During the chat, appropriately include some ambiguous elements, such as "It sounds very romantic, how about we go and see it together?" This can lead to ambiguous topics without making the other party feel embarrassed.
2. Use humor as a medium
Humor is a powerful tool to break the deadlock. Adding some humor into the conversation can make the atmosphere more relaxed and enjoyable. For example, when talking about a certain topic, you can use a teasing tone and say: "You are so awesome, I'm a little scared." This can not only express your own appreciation, but also make the other person feel your concern.
3. Use your own experiences as the topic
In chatting, appropriately sharing some of your own experiences can help the other party understand you better. For example, you can say: "I once had a very ambiguous friend. We always teased each other, but we never became lovers in the end." This can lead to ambiguous topics without making the other person feel embarrassed.
4. Use greetings as the entry point
At the beginning of the chat, greeting the other party appropriately can make the atmosphere more harmonious. For example, you can say: "How were you today? Did you do anything special?" This can not only express your concern, but also lead to ambiguous topics.
5. Use common topics as an entry point
If you and the other party have a common topic, you can use this as an entry point to chat. For example, if you both like going to the movies, you could talk about the movies you've seen recently. During the chat, appropriately add some ambiguous elements, such as "The male protagonist in this movie is so handsome, what do you think?" This can lead to ambiguous topics without making the other party feel embarrassed.
It takes certain skills and experience to break into ambiguous topics in chat. The above methods are just some of them, I hope they can be helpful to everyone.
